Goodbye, Barlad

It was our last day of working with the children. Gabi and Alexandra left in the morning. Gabi will apparently be going to a foster family and Alexandra was going back to the placement center. 

As the afternoon drew to a close, we said our goodbyes to the children who have made such a special impression on my heart. It was very meaningful to receive big hugs and kisses from the staff as we were leaving. It has been a great two weeks that, as usual, makes a deep impression on my life. The dear children and the staff are in my thoughts and prayers. It is at this time that I tell myself that quote attributed to Dr. Seuss, “Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”  Goodbye, Barlad.

Entry submitted by: Steve

  

Message of the Day - Lorraine: “The heart that gives, gathers.”  - Marianne Moore                 

            

Bringing toys to the children

The day started with breakfast and a quote from Steve about how one should never forget a kindness bestowed upon them but one who bestows a kindness should never remember. The day was filled with lots of activity. The children were very active. Alina put a hoodie sweatshirt on her head and acted like it was long hair. It was hilarious. She tossed her “hair” from side to side and it was quite the sight. She would show me her “hair” and I would exclaim how beautiful she looked. It is a reminder that every little girl, no matter her circumstances, wants to feel beautiful. Emma, Luca, Alexandra, and Ionut loved being held today. Alexandra and Alina loved being walked up and down the halls.

At dinner we had delicious Italian food, but the highlight of the evening was delivering toys that we had bought earlier in the evening to the hospital after dinner. Steve bought the children a rocking horse, an easel, and a walker while I bought a push cart which encourages children to walk. Bringing them to the hospital was met with squeals of delight and it felt like Christmas morning. It was a wonderful day.

Entry submitted by: Cher

Message of the Day - Steve: “He who receives a benefit should never forget it; he who bestows a benefit should not remember it.”  - Pierre Charrin

Greeted with smiles

After breakfast at the hotel we again headed to the hospital. We were greeted by Delia’s smile and some other smiles but some other sounds as well. At 10 a.m. when the bottles came, they were greeted by some – others turned their heads. Luciana had her IV moved again and does not want to eat. Ionut also has a red throat now but he eats anyway – his appetite over powers his sore throat. Alina is still wearing her surgical mask and Alexandra carrying her chair to a good place to sit. Delia was sure to let anyone know if they had a toy she thinks is hers.

After lunch at the Hotel Moldova, Mihaela took us to the hospital and played dolls with Alexandra, Luciana, and Delia. I spent late afternoon with sweet Emma whose temperature was normal today. As Cher lovingly rocked Dan, I’m sure he thought he was in heaven. As we left, we were again serenaded so we need not wonder if they enjoy our presence. Another day is history at the Barlad Children’s Hospital.

Entry submitted by: Lorraine

  

Message of the Day - Cher: “I am but one drop in the ocean, but without me the ocean would be less.” - Mother Teresa

In great spirits to see the children

The day started out rainy, but that didn’t dampen our spirits to see the children. We are kind of in our routine in terms of giving the children bottles, yogurt, cereal, mashed bananas, and other food. If we get out of the routine, Ionut is there to let us know.  Emma seems to be feeling better and today Cher held Dan for a while. Delia put on a show for the doctor by tapping her toy to light it up and get the music playing. Alina was playing doctor by walking around with her face mask. Sammy and Luca went for walks. Alexandra was being her usual good self. Luciana had her IV stuck in her foot, so we watched her closely. Gabby was being good and our dear Andrei again ate yogurt. We think the children were sad to see us leave at the end of the day because they seemed to almost cause a riot with their screaming after we put them back in their cribs. We ended the day with a good dinner at Alona.  The executive chef, when he found out Americans were in the restaurant, introduced himself to us explaining that he worked in the States for a number of years.  

Entry submitted by: Steve  

Message of the Day - Steve: “To the world you might just be one person, but to one person, you just might be the world.”

Keep moving or you'll get run over!

With the departure of three volunteers over the weekend and the addition of myself, the team now consists of three volunteers. The morning began with a breakfast and the message of the day regarding the need to stay moving or you will get run over.

The children at the hospital were a bit more fussy than usual. We believe it is because of the fact that there are only three of us to pay attention to eleven children. Delia was particularly fussy in the morning, but calmed in the afternoon. She is using her partial limb to turn cardboard book pages, which is quite impressive. Alina was accessorizing all day with costume jewelry, scarves, and a surgical mask. She is quite the crack-up. Ionut was a speed racer up and down the hall in his walker and quite hard to keep up with! I got plenty of exercise keeping up with him, which illustrates the quote of the day, to keep moving or you will get run over!

Entry submitted by: Cher

Message of the Day - Lorraine: "Even if you are on the right track, you will get run over if you just sit there." - Will Rogers

Each special child with unique personality

The end of the first week has arrived…already. We are getting to know the children and they seem to be getting to know us. The children, each with their unique personalities, are so special and have a special place in my heart.

Emma is still in isolation, so I spent some time holding her. She still seems to have a fever, but she still talks and gives that special Emma smile.

Saturday we said our goodbyes to Mary Ann and Sunday we said goodbye to Barbara and Tracey. We are sad to see them leave, as are the children I am sure, but happy to have made three new friends. Sunday evening we reunited with Cher who is joining us for the second week. On Saturday and Sunday my mother and I went to the hospital for the mornings to hang out with “our” kids. We had a great time each morning, and we certainly appreciated the big job the two aides have taking care of all the children over the weekends. On Sunday we witnessed bath time and noticed another child in the isolation room with Emma…thinking it might be Dan, who we met two years ago.

The first week has flown by, and I eagerly await the joys and surprises of this upcoming second week.

Entry submitted by: Steve

Message of the Day - Steve: “You never stand so tall as when you stoop to help a child.”

An amazing little mimic

After our breakfast at the hotel we headed to the hospital again. We were greeted by eager faces and smiles. I was able to share a book with Alina after which she grabbed my glasses and decided it was time to get started. Alexandra is new – she was sick and recovered and is now a part of our children. She is a sweet little blue-eyed girl. It took a bit for her to get to know us after which she was active and happy. Sweet little Emma is still in the sick room with possibly an infection. Luciana had to have an IV put into her foot for her cold, which she did not like. Delia was her happy self – repeating motions and words more than I realized she was able to do. It is just amazing all that she can do – she is a little mimic. We finished our day there. We enjoyed delicious food and wonderful fellowship at Dan, Mihaela, and Delia’s home in the evening. I wonder where these little people will be in ten to twenty years from now in their life’s journey.  I pray to God that somehow they will each have a pleasant journey.

Entry submitted by: Lorraine

  

Messages of the Day - Barbara:  “Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all peoples cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends.” - Maya Angelou

Impressed by the Romanian people

Today was our third day at the clinic. I think that both the children and volunteers have found our groove together. We have learned which children need a little extra encouragement and those who need a little bit more discipline. I think today, I was only pinched once by Alina! However, today Sammy did pull my hair once or maybe three times.

I am constantly impressed by the Romanian people. During one of my walks with Sammy down the hall, a generous woman offered Sammy a bunch of grapes and muffin. I tried to explain that the grapes were no good because of Sammy’s developmental stage, which she seemed to understand and then brought an extra muffin for him! It amazes me that someone with nothing could be so thoughtful in trying to bring a smile to his face. All of the patients and families on the floor have been very kind and the children always offer a smile and buna ziua every time we pass by.

Emma is not feeling well. She ran a high fever and was placed in another room on our floor. Her fever went down a little today and we hope that by tomorrow she will rejoin our group. We miss her smiling face.

The children enjoyed treats of bananas, yogurt, and cereal. Ionut especially enjoyed his treats as well as everyone else’s.

We are all feeling a bit tired; however, seeing the smiling beautiful faces of the children makes it all worthwhile.

Entry submitted by: Tracey

  

Message of the Day - Mary Ann: “A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows your strengths, feels your fears but frees your spirit, recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities.”  -  William Arthur Ward

Children who need and deserve continual nurturing

Today was our second day at the hospital. It’s amazing how fast time is flying. I am almost halfway through my time with the team and children. We were surprised to see the difference in some of the children from yesterday to today. Yesterday, they were full of energy and wore us out. Today, they seemed more subdued. I think we wore them out as well. I spent some time with Ionut and encouraged walking. We walked down the hall and back and I found his confidence to be increasing. I hope that when I leave, others will continue to encourage his walking skills. I also spent time with Alina. She is a most engaging child. Her antics are precious and she is quite bright. Her social skills with her peers need some improvement, but hopefully she will learn to be more cooperative.

I am sad to know that the teams are no longer as consistent as they were in the past. These children need and deserve continual nurturing and support if they are to thrive.

On a lighter note, we ended our day with a wonderful Italian dinner and a culturally informative walk home. Maryanne got to see the Gypsy King’s castle!

Entry submitted by: Barbara

  

Message of the Day - Tracey: “There is nothing more blessed than a young Soul and we, as Humans, have a responsibility to do what we can to help that Soul not just survive – but to thrive – with whatever power we have.”  - Misdeb

A day of firsts

Monday was a day of “firsts”:

1) School was re-opened with a wonderful program featuring a number of very talented boys and girls singing songs about school and friends – very upbeat. It was great to see all the children dressed in their new school clothes and carrying flowers for their teachers. Lots of proud parents accompanied them. We were very happy to be included in this event.

2) The hospital where we met the staff and children. It was my first time here, as everyone was new to me. Barb and Tracey had been to Romania before but not this location. Lorraine and Steve knew everyone, including many of the children. 

I found myself watching each child carefully to learn as much as possible about their conditions and abilities. There are nine children, each with very special needs. There was so much energy in the children’s rooms, and almost all of them responded joyfully to the individual attention we were able to give them. It was a wonderful and rewarding first day and we returned to the hotel exhausted from and filled with our day with Alina, Gabby, Ionut, Luca, Luciana, Emma, Sammy, Andrei, and Delia.

Entry submitted by: Mary Ann

Message of the Day - Dan: “Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened.  Happiness never decreased by being shared.” - Buddha

Reunited with friends in Romania

Today was our first full day in Barlad. We had a pretty relaxing day, which was much needed before we begin working with the babies at the hospital. This day was dedicated to learning about our team, the Romanian language and customs as well as what our routine will be for our time in Barlad. 

This being my third visit to Romania, the events today were a nice refresher to what I had learned on my previous trips. During my down time, my mother and I went for a walk around town. We went to the local market and grocery store, but were unable to find our beloved Cappy and Poiana! 

While I have been to Romania before and had prepared myself for what I was going to experience, I still found some of the things I saw to be emotional. Being an animal lover, it is very hard to see so many stray dogs and cats and unable to offer them the support I would if I were home. 

I was very happy to be reunited with my friends, Mihaela and Dan. It has been quite a few years since I have seen them. Most enjoyable was seeing Delia and how she has grown into such a beautiful and personable young lady. She delighted our group with her singing a version of the song “Apa”. I look forward to tomorrow, where we will first be guests at the opening day ceremony of the local middle school and, of course, meeting the wonderful children and staff at the hospital.   

Entry submitted by: Tracey

An eye-opening experience

Today was our last day and it was so much harder than either of us could have predicted. There were tears as we had to put the kids in their cribs for the final time, from both the kids and us! Sara and I are wishing we could just adopt all nine children and bring them home with us. But our last day was nothing short of amazing just like the other hospital days. We took lots of pictures and made the kids giggle extra amounts! I can speak for the both of us when I say how hard it is to leave them. We are feeling so blessed to be able to meet such amazing kids and it is reassuring to know there is another round of volunteers coming right after us. This experience has been so eye-opening and has really made my future goals more clear! All nine of the kids will forever hold a special place in our hearts. We will miss everything about Romania!

Entry submitted by: Jamie 

Feeling blessed in Romania

Today, we had another fun day at the hospital and starting realizing tomorrow is our last day. The kids were very attached to us today, especially when a tour group came in and viewed the hospital. It was awesome that the kids felt comfortable with us when strangers were around yet heartbreaking because we know it will quickly be coming to an end. We are not excited for our last day, but we are feeling blessed to have met such amazing kids in the first place.

Entry submitted by: Jamie 

Teaching Romanian children English

The past two days have been fun as usual, just a little more tiring without our third team member. On Tuesday Gabi's possible foster mom came to visit and we were excited she might have a home but reluctant to say goodbye. The kids have been sick for a little while but most seem to be getting better and it's showing in their moods! On Wednesday we had a normal morning, then went with Mihaela to the hospital for the first time. Alina got to go outside and run off some of her energy before it rained, but we wished we could have taken all the kids outside. As the week is winding down, we are beginning to think about saying goodbye and wishing it wasn't so soon. These two days, Jamie and I also went to the middle schools and worked on English skills with a variety of different aged children. It was so cool to see how their schools operate and to hear the questions they had for us about English and our American culture in general.

Entry submitted by: Sara

Another fun day with the children

Today we lost a team member so it was just us two girls against the nine kids! Iontz went back to the placement center and even though he was very quiet to begin with, the hospital atmosphere felt much emptier without him. This was the first day either of us interacted with Alina because our teammate was usually with her and she didn't like the lack of attention to say the least! (She was put into time-out quite often). Even though most kids were sick (including ourselves), it was yet another fun day with the kids!

Entry submitted by: Jamie

Visiting beautiful castles

Friday – Sunday Free Time  

The past three days we stepped aside from the hospital and visited some of the most beautiful places in Romania. On Friday afternoon, we traveled to our Bed and Breakfast or “pension” with our driver, Durrell. It is located in Bran right by the mountains. The family we stayed with was extremely friendly and welcoming. On Saturday, we went to Dracula’s Castle in Bran and explored the beautiful castle and learned the history of it along the way. Then, Durrell took us to Sinai to see the Pele’s Castle, which was much more extravagantly decorated compared to Dracula’s castle. By the end of the day, we were exhausted so we went back to the pension. On Sunday, we went to Brasov where there were many stores to shop at and we bought many souvenirs. Unfortunately, the uncooperative weather came in the way of our shopping so we got an early start home. We loved seeing all the pretty places in Romania, but it was also very nice to be back to Barlad!

Entry submitted by: Jamie 

Learning about each child

The kids were a little bit crankier today, Luca and Luchianna especially, but there might be a cold going around causing all the crankiness. It’s still great to come to the hospital. The novelty hasn’t worn off. Every day is a little bit different and we learning more about each child and what we can do to make them happy. For Luca if you shake his belly and shoulders I can usually get him to laugh. Luchianna just wants someone to hold her all the time to be happy. Today we did a lot of “teaching” with sign language with Gabby and Alina and then went to the middle school. I’m a little nervous about what we will be doing and how to open the students up to us. But at night, we were able to be Mihaela’s guests at the high school prom where we met some very nice and welcoming students and learned some Romanian dance traditions. It was definitely an experience we will never forget!

Entry submitted by: Sara 

Children warming up to us

Today was our second day at the hospital and we felt as if we have been at the hospital forever. We all kind of strayed to certain kids and started developing a daily pattern. The kids started to warm up to us and cry when we leave. It was a pretty average day, but it was a great day to learn the routines of the hospital!

Entry submitted by: Jamie 

Screams of happiness on our first day

Today was our first at the hospital! We went in a little nervous but were welcomed by Alina’s scream of what I hope was excited happiness. Most of the morning we played and began to learn names (we knew them all at the end of the day!) No one was really crying or causing trouble yet. Just lots of big ones from Emma and Luca! After lunch we had another snack and I had my first baby spit up ever from Luchianna and spent the rest of the afternoon making sure everyone was comfortable. It feels great to have started the work we came here to do and I’m excited to get to know the kids here and see what we can do for them.

Entry submitted by: Sara 

Our first full day in Barlad

Today was our first full day in Barlad! Sara, our teammate, and I met our team leader, Mihaela, for the first time as well as her and Dan’s daughter, Delea. It was Delea’s tenth birthday so we were invited to her party at one of their favorite restaurants. It was a very cool experience to be able to compare their birthday traditions to ours. After that, there was a cultural festival right next to our hotel where a famous Romanian singer named Smiley was performing and all the girls were so excited. Even though we were too exhausted to go, we opened our window and got to hear the concert. It was overall a successful first day but we are excited for our first day at the hospital tomorrow.

Entry submitted by: Jamie 

Departing from Romania

At 7 a.m. we were at the breakfast table. Around 7:30 Dan arrived and arranged our transportation to the Bârlad train station. Around 8:10 we boarded the train to Bucharest. We elected to travel this way because Corey had never before ridden on a train. The five hours passed rather quickly and then we were at Bucharest Nord. Laura and Corey got a taxi to the hotel for which they had a reservation and Lori got a taxi to the Bucharest airport. And thus our team experience came to an end.

Entry submitted by: Lori

Getting more than we give

Two of us were up early. September is off to Bucharest and Lori got up to tag along and try to help. Dan arrived at the planned time of 6:20 a.m. and we were off to the train station in the rain, which of course created big puddles to avoid, both in the car and by foot. Dan bought September’s ticket and then we waited about ten minutes. The announcement came for which peron (“platform” in English, but peron is also shared in Polish and maybe a few other languages, for this is one word used also by the Netherlands railroad) the train would arrive and we went outside.  Dan helped September get her luggage up into the train and then he and Lori went back to car and then the hotel.

Our team of three joined for breakfast and then held our morning meeting with Dan was usual. We made plans for our trip to Bucharest tomorrow morning.  Corey and Laura were then quickly off to the hospital for their morning work there. Lori was off to the school as usual. Today she had the students do “What do you hear?” She created this exercise, listening for numbers given orally, after some students the day before had expressed astonishment when they thought she was asking them to find fifty objects within an I Spy puzzle, whereas she was really asking for fifteen. Then she also used the homophones “ate/eight” and “to/too/two” and asked them to identify the number word. Neither the morning nor afternoon students could do the “to/too/two” group with accuracy. Perhaps they have not been exposed to the numbers as written words. They could easily do “ate/eight” correctly because they knew “ate” had something to do with “eat.” As usual the second hour consisted of games such as Jingo and Hangman.

Corey and Laura reported they had another good day at the hospital with the children. Again, there were not a lot at the tears when leaving for these two volunteers are determined also to come back and work with these precious children.

Mihaela and Delia joined us for our evening meal. Mihaela graciously thanked us for our service. Most often, as will with this group of volunteers, we feel we get more than we give.

Entry submitted by: Lori 

A few tears

This morning our team was in sync we all had the same meal for breakfast.  Lori brought to the breakfast room the beautiful knitted hats she made for the kids asking us to take them to the hospital. Off we went in our separate directions: Lori, teaching English and the rest of us at the hospital.  Our days all went smoothly, Lori in a routine at school and going with the flow of things even when one of the students did not want to participate. We at the hospital are really getting a routine down with the kids, and our last day is almost here. September did well at the hospital as I only saw her wipe a few tears for she knows she will return soon.

At dinner we decided we all made a great team and that we had reached our goals that we spoke about on the first day we arrived.

Tomorrow we will be one less but still a team and a great one at that.

Entry submitted by: Laura

Message of the Day - Lori: “Life is a great big canvas and you should throw all the paint on it that you can.” - Danny Kaye 

A birthday celebration

This morning we met for breakfast at 8:15 and then had our usual morning meeting with Dan at 8:30. After breakfast, Corey, Laura, and September left with Dan for the hospital. The children greeted us with happy faces. Coca had all the children dressed and ready for the day. Coca takes such good care of the kids. They are lucky to have her.

This morning Alina was ready to dance, dance, and dance! More hokey-pokey and chicken dance .Gabi joined in, too. Luca was in a good mood this morning. Luciana also appeared to be feeling better. For the morning snack Coca mashed bananas and put them into strawberry yogurt. The kids loved it!

At lunch time we celebrated Gabi’s fifth birthday. Oh what a special day! Coca put all the girls in frilly dresses. Dan picked up a special birthday cake.  He also provided special little cakes and soda. We sang “Happy Birthday” in English and the staff sang in Romanian. Everyone had fun, especially the kids. We took many photos of the kids dressed up.

Lori joined us for Gabi’s birthday, too.  She had a nice visit to the Children’s Hospital. At 1 p.m. we all met in the restaurant for lunch. Everyone ate chicken snitzel one last time! Yummy!

At 3 p.m. we returned to the hospital with Dan. Some of the kids were still asleep. The afternoon went well. We put a blanket on the floor and played with the kids. At 5:30 it was time to leave. This is still the hardest part of our day. It is hard to say goodbye to our new-found angels.

Lori had a lovely afternoon with the sixth graders.  They had a bit of trouble with the numbers while playing Multiplication Bingo, but really knew worldwide landmarks when playing Landmark Bingo. Lori mentioned they must have a very good geography teacher.

At 6:30 we met in the hotel restaurant for the evening meal. We spoke about how our trip is coming to an end.  We will never forget our time with these little sweet souls.

Entry submitted by: September 

Message of the Day - Laura: “I slept, and I dreamt that life was all joy. I woke, and saw that life was service. I served, and discovered that service was joy.” - Rabindranath Tagore

Yes, it’s a repeat from last week, but it’s such a good idea that it deserves to be repeated as it provides a foundation for our day.

A yogurt treat for the children

The day began just as most have, we all met up in the hotel restaurant downstairs at around 8:15 a.m. It was a quiet morning due to some of us being tired. September was having a little trouble sleeping from thinking so much about the children at the hospital. After breakfast, Corey, Laura, and September departed for the hospital with Dan, who would also be transporting Lori to and from the school for the day.

The morning at the hospital was one of the easier that we have encountered, mostly due to the fact that we are so used to the schedule now! Corey sat with Andrei and Clio for much of the morning because Andrei was fussy and Clio just needed some well-deserved attention. Laura and September spent a lot of the morning dancing with the children to the “Chicken Dance” and the “Hokey Pokey.” The kids just love hearing those songs over and over and over!

Bananas and yogurt were had by all, which the kids really enjoy. The morning also brought about the first of a few diaper changes Corey finally did! Overall the morning went well with a less than tearful goodbye until the afternoon. Back to the hotel for lunch!

After lunch, we headed back to a very quick passing afternoon. Filled with laughter from all the kids, even from Luca! It was wonderful to see him laugh even while sick. Today was probably the easiest goodbye yet. Very few baby tears! Only two/three days left with the little ones though. We're all dreading leaving!

For dinner, Mihaela took us to the delicious Italian restaurant where we probably all ended up overeating, but it was too good to pass up! At dinner we heard about Lori's good morning with her students and then her afternoon with the older kids. As it was a different group from the day before, they were not quite as advanced. It was a good day, and night, had by all.

Entry submitted by: Corey

Message of the Day - Lori: “Someone's sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago." - Warren Buffett

Special Note: Dan said this message of the day made him think of a Romanian proverb, “To have a meaningful life – plant a tree, dig a well, build a house, and have a child.” The tree is for bringing comfort to others, the well is for bringing needed water and nourishment to others, the house is all about family, and the child is about the future.

Learning about Romanian culture

Despite being tired from the weekend trip, September, Laura, and Lori were up a bit early and took a walk to the outdoor market. They had a fine time admiring all the vegetables for sale, and Laura and Lori each bought a jar of honey.

Back at the hotel we held our usual morning meeting with Dan. Lori’s afternoon assignment has changed from 4^th graders to 6^th graders from the “high school.” Today she had students in both groups describe what they did on the weekend. It was amazing how many reported they had spent Saturday doing homework. The next most popular activity was computer games. In addition to this discussion, they used letter stickers to make their name and then wrote 4-6 words for each letter of their name in both English and Romanian. The rest of the class time included Hangman and various Jingo games. After afternoon school Lori went with Dan to the “Chinese store” to buy window blinds for the hospital rooms where the precious children stay.

The hospital team members reported the children have seemed to settle into a schedule with the volunteers. The kids are surely being kids, showing jealousy when  someone else is getting attention and also moving fast and slipping away in just an instance of time. All expressed concern about Clio’s change of health status. And, one little lady now has her own necklace and she doesn’t have to feel sad in the afternoon when the volunteers leave. A special treat for the toddlers today was yogurt and bananas – food that may seem common to us, but something they don’t see often.

All joined together for lunch with Dan. We asked questions about the vegetables we had seen in the market that were unusual to us. We also learned about the building history in Bârlad. Much doesn’t look “old” here because of a devastating earthquake in 1975 followed by more destruction of buildings by the Communist administrators.  Mihaela joined us for evening meal at the hotel. We had a wide ranging conversation at dinner, too. A fine time had by all. Our weekend tour plus all of these wonderful meal-time discussions with Dan and Mihaela help us achieve another team goal: to learn more about Romanian culture and language.

Entry submitted by: Lori

Message of the Day – Corey: “Don't be stressed, just be confident at what you do and that you did it. Understand that there is more than one road you take to your happiness.”  - Steve Breaston (University of Michigan football player and now at free agent status in the NFL)

A weekend getaway

Saturday and Sunday Free Time

We awoke in Brasov with directions to be ready around 8:30 for breakfast. There was still a touch of snow outdoors. At the left is our van with its dusting of overnight snow.

The breakfast buffet at the City Centre Hotel was a nice change of pace. Being able to refill the coffee cup was a great luxury. When done with breakfast, we checked out of the hotel and loaded everything into Dorel’s van and then drove part of the way to Black Church. We walked some of the same route we had done the previous evening, but this time we could really see the beautiful buildings of Brasov main square, shown at the right. But first we saw some interesting glass mosaic art along the street.

We arrived at the Black Church and paid our 6 lei for admission, deeply regretting the notice that said NO PHOTOGRAPHY. We were all amazed at the interior for it is decorated with certainly at least 100+ Turkish rugs, each about 3x5 feet. None of us had ever seen such a sight before. We walked about trying to take in all the information we could sort out and translate from German. (On Monday Dan explained to us that the rugs were provided by German traders who would travel to and from Anatolia, present day Turkey. They would donate a rug each time they returned in thanksgiving for a safe trip.)

We also saw a pillar that appeared to have gun shots – the work projectile is used in the Romanian and German signage – from December 1, 1989. Regretfully we forgot to ask about the history and meaning of this when discussing our weekend trip with Dan.  We surely enjoyed seeing such a unique church interior. We slowly made our way our way back to van enjoying again all the beautiful architecture that is in Brasov.

We headed to Bran. Once there we went to Club Vila Bran and checked in. Our rooms were not ready. Thus, we went to lunch with most of us again trying new foods found on the extensive menu. Then we walked to the Bran Castle and enjoyed the tour there very much. The views inside the castle are very interesting and at points in the tour one gets onto terraces and can get views of the surrounding countryside as well.

Following the tour we spent some time in the markets. Then we found our trusty driver, Dorel, and he took us back to Club Vila Bran. By now we could get the keys to our rooms. We walked up a long staircase from the parking area to a terrace, and from the terrace up more stairs to the entry to Vila 1, only to discover our rooms with numbers like 10, 11, and 12 were not on first floor as Europeans count, but actually on 2nd floor (3^rd floor as Americans count) - up more stairs to very lovely rooms.

September and Lori rested for bit, while Corey and Laura went exploring. Corey tried a bit of horseback riding. Good thing, because they knew the layout of the resort and could get us to the restaurant for dinner at 7 p.m. when it was dark. This required about five minutes of walking up staircases, but when we got there, the restaurant was lovely, the food was great, and we surely satisfied achievement of one team goal – having fun.  We were most grateful that the trip back to Vila 1 was all downhill. 

We met Dorel at 9 a.m. on Sunday morning. We all thought we were going to breakfast with him. Something was lost in translation somewhere along the line!  We instead drove directly to Peles Castle. Dorel parked the van and led us the area where we could buy tickets. Immediately the word was WOW. Peles Castle, seen at the left, is truly magnificent. We really enjoyed the tour, despite the requirement to go up and down a lot of stairs and not lose a slipper.

After the tour we walked around the exterior of the castle taking photos. Then we stopped at the coffee bar for cappuccino or hot chocolate. We slowly made our way back to where the van was parked – the folks from Texas and Arizona being particularly chilled by the 27 degree weather, but yet marveling at the beauty of the snow fall. As soon as Dorel saw us cross the castle gate, he drove the van to meet us, waiting while two team members purchased penguins!

We had decided we didn’t want to do the cable car ride up a mountain. The combination of snow and clouds would make it impossible to really see anything special from the mountain tops. We stopped for lunch at a lovely café. Then we headed back to Bârlad, arriving at about 5:45.

We quickly dropped our luggage in our room and then Laura, September, and Lori headed off to the Gypsy King House. Returning, we made a stop at Lidl only to discover that it closed at 5:00 on Sunday. On the way back to the hotel we stopped by Penny Market, too, to check on sizes of diapers, finding nothing there was the right size. However, they were; Lori made a mistake in her conversion of kilograms to pounds, actually doing the math backwards!

Back at the hotel we gathered for supper at 6:30. We made a plan for covering the journals for the coming week. We are surprised that our time suddenly seems so short and soon we will be leaving Bârlad.

Entry submitted by: Lori

Looking forward to the children each morning

This morning was breakfast as usual, concluding with our traditional team meeting that includes the message of the day and the journal from the previous day. Today is our fifth day together. So far we are a wonderful team!

After breakfast Laura, Corey, and I left with Dan for the hospital. We look forward to greeting the children each morning. Alina was especially excited to see Laura as she loves taking Laura’s necklace and putting it on to wear herself.  Gabi was in good spirits. She really loved dancing to the songs we played – the hokey-pokey and the chicken dance. Alina, of course, wanted us to play the songs over and over again. Needless to say we got quite a workout.

Luca wasn’t feeling too well today. Corey spent time with Luca, trying to comfort him. Dan took Luciana to the adult hospital. She has an ear infection. She will be getting IV antibiotics later today.

At 12:30 we left the hospital to meet our team for lunch. This will be our last meal with Rich and Margaret as they leave tomorrow for Turkey. They will be missed next week.

At School #2 Rich and Margaret repeated their rocket experiment for another group of students. Lori played a DVD featuring “Dem Bones” and “I Know an Old Lady Who Swallowed a Fly” with her students. In the second hour her students played Multiplication Bingo and Food Jingo. She said the kids were lovely.

At 2 p.m. Dorel picked up Lori, Corey, Laura, and me for a trip to Brasov. It was about a four-and-a-half-hour drive. Dorel is an excellent driver! We enjoyed great conversations with each other. It made the time go fast. (At breakfast on Monday following our trip, we also spoke about how much we enjoyed seeing the countryside between Bârlad and Brasov equally as much as all the special places we visited during the trip.)

Around 6:30 pm we arrived in Brasov and checked in at Hotel City Center. Our rooms were very nice. We were all pleased.

After we checked in, we quickly left for the city center. Everyone was hungry. Dorel took us to an excellent restaurant, Butoiul Sasului. We were each treated with a complimentary glass of schnapps. Schnapps is hot going down!

Entry submitted by: September Some of us ordered gulyas (goulash in English, but certainly nothing like what Midwest Americans mean when they say “goulash.”) It was delicious. Everyone enjoyed the meal. On our walk back to the hotel it started to snow. Even though we were all freezing, we still enjoyed the snow. Cheers for a wonderful evening.

Entry submitted by: September

Message of the Day – Laura: “The doors that we open and close each day decide the lives we live.” - Flora Whittemore 

Spirit and enthusiasm for learning

The morning began with our usual breakfast along with some additional cups of coffee. We all spoke of being extra tired in the mornings and think it may be due to the weather which has been quite dreary, at least for us Western people.

Our team split up after breakfast. The hospital team found their little cherubs a little extra tired and needy today, too. Luciana was having some ear issues, Clio went out for some x-rays, and the rest were in need of some extra cuddling.

We all met up for lunch,  Margaret and Rich needed a little extra rest time and Lori was in need of paper for class activities, but we would all meet up for dinner.

The afternoon went wonderful for our seasoned professor, Lori. She is always amazed at the little things the students teach her. Lori was also able to film Richard and Margaret's class experiment. Margaret and Richard love the students’ spirit and enthusiasm for learning and how polite they all are. Their day went great and the science experiment was a hit!

The afternoon at the hospital was full of cuddles and lots of walking and soothing. The hardest part of the day is when we leave and the children cry. It breaks all of our hearts! September may just sneak back and stay the night!

Dinner was with Mihaela, Dan, and Delia who treated us to an authentic Romanian meal of sarmele, a type of cabbage roll. Mihaela's mother prepared our special meal. What a special treat to be welcomed into their home. We are all so very grateful for their hospitality.

Entry submitted by: Laura

Message of the Day - Richard: “If you think you are too small to be effective, you have never been in bed with a mosquito.” - Betty Reese

Thought for the evening - Laura: “All great change in America begins at the dinner table.”  - Abraham Lincoln

Service is joy

Our group of volunteers met in the hotel restaurant for breakfast and our daily meeting at 8:15 a.m. Richard was particularly tired due to the fact he awoke at 3:00 a.m. revising the planning for the experiment that he and Margaret would be teaching the children that day. Before finishing breakfast, September, Lori, Laura, and Corey began to discuss with Dan the weekend plans for visiting Brasov. After breakfast, we all parted ways and headed to the hospital/school.

Today was a less hectic day at the hospital, mainly due to the fact that it is our third day and we have gotten into a rhythm with the children and their schedule. Alina was still full of energy as always and Gabi ate her meals better today. Little Delia was not so cooperative, but she was still as happy as ever. Clio and Andrei were near each other in the morning. Luca walked with all of us today, which is good for him. Luciana was very active and baby Ema was all smiles until we had to leave for lunch.

We arrived back at the hotel for lunch with Dan. Lunch was a potato soup and some fried chicken with fries. Finishing up, we headed back to our rooms to rest for the second part of the day!

Arriving back at the hospital at 3 o'clock the children all needed to be woken up from their naps and be fed again. The afternoon went pretty smoothly seeing as we were mostly by ourselves with WONDERFUL Coca leaving at 4 o'clock. She really is a saint! The most traumatic event of the day happened to September! She decided to change Ema's diaper under Laura's supervision and oh boy! It was messy! But just like everything else, we got through it. Saying goodbye was not as tearful, but still just as hard.

At dinner we heard that Lori had another good day teaching her students. And then Richard and Margaret described how their propulsion experiment worked, but as with any other experiment, not as planned. But being the quick thinkers Muggsy and Rich are, they improvised and the children loved it! The dinner was a quick one, only lasting about an hour, but there was an exchange of family pictures. It was nice seeing how everyone else lived back home.

Entry submitted by: Corey

Message of the Day - Margaret: “I slept, and I dreamt that life was all joy. I woke, and saw that life was service. I served, and discovered that service was joy.” - Rabindranath Tagore 

Getting the hang of things

This day had the same schedule as Monday for the volunteers going to the hospital and the school. During the morning meeting we also made a plan to go to an Italian restaurant for the evening meal. Mihaela went to the school with the teaching volunteers and Dan went to the hospital with the volunteers caring for the children. Teaching went more smoothly for Rich and me. We are beginning to get the hang of things! Lori has loaned us some of the game to play with the students and that is a big help. Flexibility is the key. Today Lori learned a new Romanian word, insecta, which means “insect” in English. Some verbs are close to English, too, but most are very different.

The hospital volunteers found things a little more difficult today. The kids slept more, seeming to be tired out from the all the activity and stimulation by the volunteers on Monday. The children also cried more today when the volunteers left. Delia, daughter of Dan and Mihaela, is with us much of the time. She is delightful! Her English skills are above average because of her exposure to the Global Volunteers.

Hotel Moldova is better than our expectations. It is clean, has nice bathrooms, and we get fresh towels daily. The restaurant has good food.

Today was also a pastry day. Both groups went to the Berlin Café; the teaching volunteers went with the school principal where they were privileged to hear Mr. Stefanik’s memories of the revolution and how it played out in Bârlad. The evening meal at Trattoria da Vinci was especially good. The team members are having fun getting to know each other better.  Good communication!

Entry submitted by: Margaret

Message of the Day – Corey: “To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson 

Our first day at the school and hospital

The six of us gathered for breakfast around 8:00. Dan, co-country manager, came in after breakfast. We held the typical morning meeting with the message for the day and the journal reading. Richard volunteered to write the journal for Tuesday and September offered to bring the message for the day. After breakfast all volunteers returned to their rooms for final preparation before starting the day’s work.

Today was our first day at the school and hospital. Margaret, Lori, and I went to the school while Laura, Corey, and September went to the hospital. As Margaret and I are not teachers, today was a bit nervous for us. Around 12:00 we “teachers” returned to the hotel and met the hospital team, and we compared our morning. The first morning at school ended with mixed results. Rich and Margaret found that the morning students were less proficient in English than was expected. There was a need to change the program for the afternoon group. Flexibility is a necessity. Lori played Multiplication Bingo (for other journal readers – this game is used to give practice saying the numbers, from 1-144, in English, not to teach math) with her class and had a good morning with them. The hospital team all had a rewarding time with the children.  September wondered how hard it’s going to be say goodbye to them. Corey had a good time, as he expected, running up and down the corridors with one of the little girls.

After lunch we returned to the hospital and school. Richard and Margaret’s revised program worked better, and the afternoon group is also more proficient in English. We had to go over vowel sounds, an important beginning concept for all the classes. We had them write small sentences and then we played Hangman and Food Jingo. We had a good afternoon at the school.

Entry submitted by: Richard

Message of the Day – September: “Anybody can be great…because anybody can serve. You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace, a soul generated by love.” - Martin Luther King, Jr.

Becoming a team

Our team of six assembled at the Bucharest airport. When all had arrived, the luggage was quickly loaded into the van for the trip to Bârlad. We traveled about two hours and then stopped in Bazau for supper at McDonald’s.  Then it was another two hours north. North of Bazau we began to see the vineyards, of course in a dormant phase during March. We also saw snow banks clinging to sheltered areas where the early spring sun was not yet warm enough to melt them.

   

It was dark by the time we arrived in Bârlad. We quickly checked into Hotel Moldova. The first question we had: What’s the password for the wireless? Most had good luck getting connected. Laura, Corey, and Lori went to the Penny Market hunting for important needs: wine and chocolate. Most retired for an early night as jet lag is alive and well among the volunteers.

Sunday morning found us all at breakfast around 9:00. Afterwards some went for a morning walk. At 11:30 Mihaela arrived. She led us on a bit of tour of Bârlad and then to the Alona restaurant where we had lunch. New volunteers were amazed by the restaurant’s décor which certainly can be described as “eclectic!”  While we waited for the food to arrive, Mihaela explained the Global Volunteers’ history in Bârlad. We all did a personal introduction, but truthfully we had covered introductions in the van and at breakfast as well.  Following lunch, we walked to the school at which Mihaela is both teacher and vice-principal. There we worked on establishing personal and team goals. The team goals we established are:

(1) To better a child’s life

(2) to learn about Romanian people and culture

(3) To help students

(4) To have fun.

Next we established Characteristics of an Effective Team, namely: 

patience

kindness/gentleness

flexibility

ability/willingness to learn new things

   communication

We walked about the school building, admiring the beautiful architecture. Then we came back to the hotel for a break that appeared to include some naps!

At 5:15 we gathered again in the hotel dining room. Mihaela started a Romanian language lesson, but when we were joined by Mr. Stefanik, the vice-principal of the school where some of the volunteers will be teaching, we changed to discussing the plans for the school teaching program. Mihaela then went on to plan with the volunteers who will be working at the Children’s Hospital. We did return to the Romanian language lesson, making valiant effort to roll the Rs.

Final plans for the days are to have breakfast at 8:15, team meeting at 8:30 for the journal and message of the day, departure of volunteers to the hospital at 9:00, and departure of the teaching volunteers at 9:40. We will review the day’s activities at a team meeting over the evening meal.

Entry submitted by: Lori  

Message of the Day - Dan: “Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of a candle will not be shortened. Happiness is never decreased by being shared.” - Buddha 

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